Sadly, throughout the country, older victims are physically, sexually and emotionally abused by someone they trust and love. Often the abuser is a spouse or partner, adult child or family member, or caregiver.
In cases of domestic abuse in later life, the victim has a trusted, ongoing relationship with the perpetrator. The abusers use a pattern of coercive tactics (such as isolation, withholding/misusing medications, food or sleep) to get their way. Batterers often feel they are entitled to control the household and make all the rules. They will be cruel, manipulative and abusive to family members who don't do what they want.
Why do they stay?
"Elderly victims may be more dependent on the batterer for care and may fear being placed in a nursing home if they leave the batterer...Physical challenges or disabilities may make it more difficult for the victim to access services and can also compound feelings of isolation..." --American Bar Association Commission on Domestic Violence
For information on elderly abuse and how to help, call (303) 494-1682 and talk with Ms. Bonnie Brandi. Ms. Brandi is a Program Coordinator for the National Center on Elder Abuse.
