Yearly family football competition! Matching, reversable jerseys; cooking together; inviting the in-laws. Can you think of any situation with more potential for disaster?! Well, I have this friend, who not only does all this at Thanksgiving, but loves it. Her kids love it and her grandchildren love it. They actually even look forward, to it.
How can this be, when so many view the approaching of the holidays with a variety of emotions....often, the least of which is eager anticipation!?
I had asked my friend about how everyone gets along. She said, very matter of factly, "Of course situations come up, but we just 'suck it up'." She did not paint a picture of perpetual bliss, but in my mind, I conjured up a scene from Chevy Chase's movie "Funny Farm" in which they enlist the whole town to help them with propaganda to help sell the farm, making it look like the perfect place.
Another friend, has two aging, ailing mothers. Since they also live internationally, it is difficult to always be present when a need arises to get back to the states to help their moms. One of their sons called to say, "Why don't you move...
Leaving an impression. It’s something we do every day, every moment, but are often unaware of the impact we make.
The other day, I sat down on the dock of our pond and slowly dangled my feet in the water. I watched the ripples vibrate out to the edges of a pond….I did not even try to make a ripple, it just happened. Just so, everything we do in this world has a ripple—a far more reaching ripple than you might expect. No wonder the fish know when I am coming, they feel it in the water. They expect to be fed….too bad they don’t know that I am just fattening up for when we are going to eat them…hmm…..ripples.
After just getting off the elevator, my husband commented about someone who was just in there. No she wasn’t in there any more, but he could tell she had been and she left a favorable impression! He came home to tell me how good she smelled (brave boy). She smelled like strawberry shower gel….ok—so I need to run out and buy some strawberry shower gel….hmmm….ripples.
I read in my bible from the book of Matthew, Chapter 26,...
Either You Are, Or You Aren't a Renaissance Woman!
A renaissance woman is someone who sets her own agenda for personal achievement and will not allow herself to be manipulated or intimidated by self-proclaimed spokesmen who try and wrap their political philosophies around terms like "equality," "choice," "peace," "tolerance" and "diversity." She understands that she has been created for such a time as this and embraces her destiny as a challenge and not a curse, no matter what her personal circumstances. She is a winner not a whiner, a leader not a follower, a victor, not a victim. She wants to change the paradigm of the feminist movement that has served to marginalize and ridicule women who do not follow their collective agenda.
Millions of women around the country, from all professions, backgrounds and cultures, are courageously picking up the mantel of leadership and virtue, that the feminist movement has squandered. They are providing thoughtful and accurate analysis, on a variety of issues, of where, and who we are as a nation.
Remember, this is not a club. It is a mindset!
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